it has been 2 months or so since we broke up
thought i was fine and everything was going well
we had no contact and kinda couldnt because she blocked me from everywhere
it was all good and i was feeling better
i got a new haircut and tried new things and found new friends and it was all going okay i was fine until on a random night i miss her like crazy and i send an email to her saying i feel better and everything is okay
and i improved myself and asked her if it was okay to be friends since besides my gf she used to be my best friend
and suddenly everything feels bad and all i want is her again
i got no reply
im sure she read my email and just ignored it and it hurts
im starting to realize shes the only one i can love
shes exactly my type but i had no type before
what should i do?
how the hell do i stop loving her so bad
Last updated on:2026-01-30T22:37:56+05:30
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when you say she’s the only one you can love, do you think that’s about her as a person… or about how safe and understood you felt when she was your best friend too
from my own mess, emailing for friendship was really about wanting the connection back.
i was “fine” for weeks too, new haircut, new people, feeling proud. then one random night i reached out and BOOM, all the progress collapsed. being ignored after that hurts in a very specific way
exactly
i dont want the relationship back
i just want my friend back