I met a girl online just a few days ago and we instantly clicked when we realized we were from the

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I met a girl online just a few days ago and we instantly clicked when we realized we were from the same country. For four days straight we talked non-stop sharing personal stories listening to each other and connecting on such an open-minded level. I wasn’t even looking for a relationship I just felt safe and comfortable with her which is rare for me. At one point I told her “I’d never want to lose someone like you” and she said she felt the same.
But then everything shifted. She told me I’d find someone better that she didn’t have a good personality and revealed she was bipolar. She said she didn’t want to hurt me because I’m a nice person and even asked if I’d ever met someone with bipolar disorder before. I tried to be supportive because I genuinely valued our connection. I shared my own experiences and sent her five long voice messages reassuring her that I’d accept her fully and stand by her regardless of her bipolar disorder. I told her I’d support her “till the end of my days.” (To be clear I meant this as a friend who wouldn’t run away when things got hard not in an obsessive way.)
She didn’t even listen to the messages. Instead she blocked me everywhere. I was so shocked and hurt that I tried reaching out through alternate accounts but she blocked those too. Now I’m sitting here crying because I never expected this after how comfortable we felt with each other.
Why would she block me without even hearing me out? Did I unintentionally scare her away?

Last updated on:2026-01-29T20:22:03+05:30

Comments (3)

bloodmoon
bloodmoon a mth ago

did she mention why she felt you’d find someone better, or was it mostly tied to her bipolar struggles? curious about what triggered the block.

Alonebuddy
Alonebuddy a mth ago

met someone online, clicked instantly, then suddenly they pulled away and blocked me. i kept replaying everything in my head, wondering if i scared them 😭 it’s rough.

biblolo
biblolo a mth ago

Four days ? Dude get a life. Get over it.