Here i am.. almost 2 months since he ended things. Don't let anyone tell you how to handle a break up/discardment whatever you want to call it. The pain, well it isn't as urgent as the 1st week, it does settle into something else. Less urgent. If you can bring it all back to yourself and keep your head up high even on the days you miss them the most, you are doing great. If you think you aren't handling it well, there is no shame in admitting you need help. A friend. A relative. Therapy. This man was the kick when I was already down to work on the past. To focus on the future. My health. I fight my body to live every day (stage 4 breast cancer, spread to bones) I don't need any other fights. If this man wasn't meant for me, I'll accept it in time. Even on the bad days, I am still enough. End of rant.
Last updated on:2026-01-30T21:07:52+05:30
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on the days your body feels like a fight and the grief spikes, what’s the one thing that helps you feel even a tiny bit grounded again
Accepting the reality of things. Doesn't hurt much less but the question i ask myself is "What can I do?" And the answer is nothing. Nothing but keep my chin up and move forward. Life goes on.
i really admire how you keep bringing it back to yourself, even on the worst days.
i was dumped while already dealing with health stuff too, and it felt like life piling on when i was already on my knees. that “less urgent pain” part is REAL. you’re not weak for feeling it
oh dear , ur emotions are valid ,ur feelings are true and THIS TOO SHALL PASS