okey so today he started to follow me again en we started to talk again. I feel like I failed myself because I was doing so good a was at 26 days and now im back to talking whit him but you know i still had alot of feelings for him so I couldn't forget him fully so now we're back at talking. but I do feel really sad because i feel like I failed myself
Last updated on:2026-01-31T02:10:04+05:30
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you say you feel like you failed yourself, is it about talking to him, or about breaking the promise you made to yourself during no contact
this hurt to read because i recognize it. breaking no contact doesn’t erase the progress you made. those 26 days still mattered.
hey it's fine it happens to all of us . you can't expect yourself to just never talk to the person you've loved before. it's okay don't feel ashamed . I've broke my no contact so many times and felt guilty . but you know what i started again 😂.
ugh i’ve been there. hit a solid no contact streak, felt proud, then one follow and one message pulled me right back in. the shame after was worse than the breakup itself. you didn’t fail, you’re human
I've been in the same place as you. It can be so so hard to resist contact from someone you loved. Sometimes that's better though. Try not to get too vulnerable and attached to keep your heart safe.
don’t be so hard on yourself… it happen to all of us believe me.
no you didn't maybe some part of you wanted closure or so