it’ll take 1095 days to forget so u love according some researches

are you holding onto that 1095 number because it gives you hope, or because you’re scared of what happens if the love fades before you’re ready

i stopped treating no contact like a countdown and more like a boundary for my sanity. some days still sucked, but not reopening the wound helped more than i expected

i clung to that “it takes years” thing too. counted days like it was a sentence i had to serve. no contact felt like the only way to survive loving someone who was gone

amen 🙏