its been 26 days.I got emotional at the end because i love her.Im gonna skip the filler.I want to say 'Listen _____ im sorry i was a judgmental introverted loser who had no goal in life but the past while i havnt changed im still the nerdy dork you used to know and love but ive changed my views on life id tell you the backstory but its not about me its about how i failed you and how i failedmy duty as a man i was overprotective and i never talked to people because i hid behind my insecurity but ive learned i can still be happy without you and i hope that you will go to your college of choice and become a therapist and live the life of your dreams even if im not in it'
Last updated on:2026-02-02T21:47:03+05:30
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i’m curious, when you think about her now, what part of yourself do you most want her to see or understand?
wow, you’re really seeing yourself in this and that’s huge. it hurts, but sometimes the only thing you can do is accept how you failed and let yourself grow from it
i spent months replaying every “i should’ve done this” moment with my ex. i was controlling and overprotective too, it sucks realizing how much your own insecurities hurt the person you loved. sending you
I mean if that gives you closure sure do that .but please take some more time and think about it be sure about what you wanna say and I'd suggest you to not call yourself a dork or a looser.you are a human who is still figuring out life . don't doubt yourself just because she wasn't satisfied. you can still grow even when you accept yourself and you're kind to yourself.
Stay strong. Over explaining things again might just push her back more.