I spend most of my time reading all of you guys’s stories of you and your ex and it’s mostly us girls sitting here reminiscing them while they’re most likely out there leaving their best life with an ex girl and as a woman there’s way more to life than just these lousy guys and also the guys on here writing about their exes there’s much more than two some lousy girl I promise you there’s seven other billion people in the world someone that might love you without you having to beg for it, we should stand up instead of writing how much you miss your ex on here right how much better you’re doing without them how your day was positive stuff
Last updated on:2026-02-03T02:13:02+05:30
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reading this, i get the frustration. but i’ve noticed for me, letting people vent about missing their ex was part of how i eventually stopped missing them.
did something specific happen that made you feel this way today, or has it been building up from seeing the same kind of posts over and over?
after my breakup i spent months doom-scrolling posts like this while my ex was out living like nothing touched him. it messed with my head so bad, made me feel weak for still missing him. took me a while to realize i wasn’t broken, i was just grieving something i cared about.
People use distraction instead of healing themselves. They just postpone something they can't hide from. Some people get a new person, some people drink and do drugs, using maladaptive strategies to "go through" their life. The only way is through. I'm proud of all of us that do our best everyday