how do you let go?

I'm stuck between reaching out and apologising for the things l said or letting him go because he might take that as a way for us to reopen the cycle l love him more than life but I'm tired of his actions n his promises of change that he's never fulfilled what if one last chance to fix this is all we need or mybe l wasn't patient enough why would he even text or call when he's blocked I'm a mess a broken mess

Last updated on:2026-02-05T14:09:44+05:30

Comments (6)

Estelle7
Estelle7 4 wks ago

your problem is that you think about what is his problem, what is he doing etc
thinking about you, what you need and deserves

PainfulEcho
PainfulEcho 4 wks ago

when you imagine giving him one more chance, do you feel any relief… or just more anxiety and fear about repeating the same pain

SparkJet271
SparkJet271 4 wks ago

I feel like aslong as l still love him why do l have to leave is this much pain worth it? but l feel like he doesn't want me or love me as much as he used to

Siah
Siah 4 wks ago

don't depend on the hope of him changing or so on,just focus on yourself for now

undersorrow
undersorrow 4 wks ago

for me, reaching out when i was already exhausted only restarted the cycle and made the crash worse. sometimes love is still there but your body is screaming “enough.” that part matters too

Leftsoul
Leftsoul 4 wks ago

i loved someone who kept promising change and every time i believed it, i paid for it with my sanity. that stuck feeling between “one last try” and “i’m so damn tired” is REAL. reading this brought me right back there