hi, I feel so invalid there cuz I only knew him for one month :( but it hurts way more than all my other long relationships, I can't do anything in life now
Last updated on:2026-02-03T18:30:28+05:30
are my feelings valide ?
hi, I feel so invalid there cuz I only knew him for one month :( but it hurts way more than all my other long relationships, I can't do anything in life now
Last updated on:2026-02-03T18:30:28+05:30
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what part of it is hurting the most right now, losing him, or losing the version of yourself you felt when you were with him?
losing him :(
his person
27 days here. it's hard. you can do it. try to use several tools, write notes to yourself, celebrate each task done, try to take care about yourself, you matter and you have value.
thank you for this, really, I am going to try and do this !
i went through something almost identical, a one-month thing that wrecked me harder than my long relationships. everyone acted like it shouldn’t matter but it HURT so bad 😭 time doesn’t equal depth.
omg it makes me feel so valid, cuz yea everyone act like it's nothing around me ???
thank you so much. you kind words mean the world to me. I have been sleeping and living mostly on the couch for the last three weeks. I'm so proud of you for making it to cheerleading. I'Ve only worked out once since we broke up. Thank you for bightening my day☀️
one day you will sleep on the bed and realize how far you've been from and you will be happy. I'm proud of you working out, don't even say that once isn't a lot cuz it's already a big step
I hear you. I understand you. thanks for sharing because that took a lot of courage. I also feel like I can't do anything since breaking up with my boyfriend. it's embarrassing to admit this but it's very difficult for me to shower brush my teeth workout eat get out of bed put on clean clothes pick out a TV show or get off my phone. I feel tired, exhausted and drained and I can't stop thinking about my ex.. I'm really trying to push myself to brush my teeth and shower and to work out and meditate but it's really difficult right now cuz I'm so excited. I believe in you. what is one small thing you can do for yourself today that would make you feel good? just do the next right thing. you don't have to see the whole path or all of that steps. you just have to see the next one.
i think you can't know how much your message helped me. seeing others people living the same thing is reassuring. it is not embarrassing to admit all of that believe me cuz I am the same, I don't go to my classes, almost skipped cheerleading, but I'm not eating less, m eating too much and I'm bed rotting. I'm going to try step by step instead of asking my body and mental health too much at once
I really wants to thank you for your text
and just know that if you need to talk I am here and you will never be alone ! <3