I don’t even know where to begin.
I was in a long-distance relationship for about a year and yesterday I woke up to a text from him saying he’s not over his ex and that he’s leaving. Right after that he blocked me everywhere Instagram TikTok Facebook even on the games we used to play together like Roblox and Fortnite.
I feel like I’m in complete emotional shock. I can’t even put into words what I’m feeling right now. If anyone else has gone through something like this I’d really like to know how you handled it because I feel genuinely lost.
I was so emotionally anchored to him and for him to leave like this makes it feel like the ground has just disappeared beneath me.
Last updated on:2026-02-06T00:07:43+05:30
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my long distance relationship ended this morning, he blocked me almost everywhere, he said the most awful things to me, which in a way helped because I'm so disgusted and mad I don't feel sadness..just hurt that someone who told me they loved me every day could be so cruel. The blocking is hard to take as men rarely block, I can make other accounts but he'll just block as soon as he realises its me. don't know what to do with myself as he took up so much of my time..
before this, did you ever feel like you were holding more of the emotional weight in the relationship, or did this really come out of nowhere for you
oh god, this hurt to read. i had a long-distance ex disappear on me too, said “i’m not over my ex” and then blocked me everywhere within hours. the blocking was the part that BROKE me. it made the whole thing feel unreal, like i never existed. that emotional free-fall you’re describing
Hi, you're right, it's a huge shock. He suddenly ends the relationship without even asking you, and on top of that, he's blocked you everywhere. I've been through it myself, and it's so hard the first few days because you want to speak up and ask for answers, but you can't. What you can do is calm down first, cry, scream, get everything out of your heart, and then take a piece of paper and a pen, or write on your phone (do whatever feels right), write him a message with all the things you wanted to say. That way, your heart will be a little calmer. Don't send it to him, just write it down, and then you can do whatever you want with the paper—burn it, throw it away.
Nobody should ever have to go through that. Remember you did nothing wrong here and you deserve better