He's getting married !

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I have 3 exes in total.
They all broke up with me.
The first one, he broke up with me because I was forced into an arranged marriage, and tomorrow is his engagement. And I don't have feelings for him anymore anyway, but I shared a tear. He was a very good man but never stood for me when I was forced into a marriage.

The second man was my ex-husband of the "arranged marriage." Our marriage lasted for 2 weeks, and he divorced me because of problems between our two families. BTW, he had been married before me, and she left him, and after divorcing me, he got married again last year, and they are still together. He had bad hygiene and anger issues and was stingy with feelings and money. I don't have feelings for him anymore.

And my last ex was the loml but broke up with me when I told him I'm a divorced woman, although I was only 19 years old when I got married, and it only lasted for 2 weeks, and he left me too. He was afraid of his mother's reaction if she knew I was divorced and not a virgin, so now I'm waiting for him to get married.

So if you're looking for your future wife, hi, I'm here.

I can't help but wonder, will they forget me after getting married, although my name is very common and we live in the same city? And I really want to see the "chosen women," because how the hell will there be a lovely girl that gives everything and still feels like nothing? Maybe they are prettier than me? Every single one of my exes told me how pretty my eyes are and how they are obsessed with them and admire me but still leave for bullshit reasons.
Maybe the only one I don't regret is my ex-husband, but why weren't the first and last loves men enough to stand for me?

Last updated on:2026-02-06T00:42:03+05:30

Comments (3)

TearStained
TearStained 4 wks ago

do you feel more anger toward them, or more grief for the version of life you thought you’d have with them? i’m curious where it hurts the most right now.

try2heal
try2heal 4 wks ago

i’ve been the girl men “loved” but wouldn’t stand up for. families, fear, society, always bigger than me. that kind of rejection messes with your sense of worth in quiet ways

Venus
Venus 4 wks ago

You deserve better, a guy that chooses you regardless of your status.
sending 🫂