tip red flags list

Writing his red flags so I know he wasn’t that great

tip red flags list

Last updated on:2026-02-07T20:24:53+05:30

Comments (8)

BraveAndKind378

I should probably try this. all I can think of are his good qualities up till the last conversation we had today.

FrostBuzz988
FrostBuzz988 3 wks ago

yeah you definitely should

WishLone
WishLone 3 wks ago

what was the biggest red flag you kept excusing at the time, but now you’re like… yeah no

FrostBuzz988
FrostBuzz988 3 wks ago

euhm I guess the mood changes one time he was cold and distant and the other warm and loving. Or one time he was so sure about us and the other time he doubted us

SadSmiley
SadSmiley 4 wks ago

this actually helped me more than i expected. when my brain tried to romanticize him, the list reminded me why i was ALWAYS anxious with him. grounding, not petty

FrostBuzz988
FrostBuzz988 3 wks ago

that’s good to hear

LostWhys
LostWhys 4 wks ago

i literally had a notes app titled “reasons he wasn’t shit” 😭 every time i missed him, i reread it.

FrostBuzz988
FrostBuzz988 4 wks ago

nice haha it really works I have 15 reasons now and still at the beginning 😭