Writing his red flags so I know he wasn’t that great
Last updated on:2026-02-07T20:24:53+05:30
Writing his red flags so I know he wasn’t that great
Last updated on:2026-02-07T20:24:53+05:30
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I should probably try this. all I can think of are his good qualities up till the last conversation we had today.
yeah you definitely should
what was the biggest red flag you kept excusing at the time, but now you’re like… yeah no
euhm I guess the mood changes one time he was cold and distant and the other warm and loving. Or one time he was so sure about us and the other time he doubted us
this actually helped me more than i expected. when my brain tried to romanticize him, the list reminded me why i was ALWAYS anxious with him. grounding, not petty
that’s good to hear
i literally had a notes app titled “reasons he wasn’t shit” 😭 every time i missed him, i reread it.
nice haha it really works I have 15 reasons now and still at the beginning 😭