yesterday he contacted me randomly and told me to change my instagram password so he doesnt keep logging in but he has his own self control?? he told me that he would break no contact june 10th and be friends at the least but at the same time he said we will never work again, he will never love me again, he doesnt like me as a person, his family doesnt like me so theres no point, he doesnt love me anymore and never will again and he “knows” that. yet he leaves openings and he hopes he doesnt remember to reach out. he even said if it doesnt work june 10th i would have to wait until my 18th birthday next year if we are both single. he told me he has no empathy for me and does not care about me or my feelings and i should just move on and let go because he doesnt care anymore. this all happened from constant arguing for 5 months of our relationship. he lost feelings from them and never told me. he let himself move on in our relationship and told me last minute.
Last updated on:2026-02-08T11:01:03+05:30
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when he says all that cruel stuff but still sets future dates, what part of you do you think he’s trying to keep access to?
i have no idea
i learned that mixed messages like this kept me stuck longer than the breakup itself. hearing “i don’t care” while still being pulled back in was honestly more painful than silence.
do they ever come back? just starting to lowkey not care about it but im curious if they come back when you eventually start not to care
my ex did the same thing, brutal honesty mixed with tiny breadcrumbs. told me he didn’t care, but still kept doors cracked open. that WHIPLASH messed me up bad
did he ever come back?
just let him go
Let him go, it's better for him. He's indecisive. A man who can't make a firm decision will make you believe that you're the problem in everything that happens in your relationship. It's better to cut ties.
Cut him off
Cut him off that’s the best thing to do you can’t hold on to someone who doesn’t give a shit and just use the fact that you love him
we have both blocked each other. just still cant stop thinking what if he does come back or what if this was just the wrong timing and we will find our way back. he had the same values of a relationship wanting one long term. so it just seems so fixable.
hes also literally hanging out with people already. like its just nothing, both each others first kiss and body mind you…and i get nothing but cruelty back. just a constant reminder that he doesnt care and he was only holding on because he knows i cared.