I tried to hold on even after being manipulated and blocked everywhere.
I know he is not right for me, and I don’t want dominating people in my life.
Still, every time my phone rings or a message comes, I miss him for a moment.
Healing is hard, but choosing myself is harder — and I’m doing it anyway.
Last updated on:2026-02-08T09:15:05+05:30
Comments (11)
when your phone rings and that wave hits, what do you miss exactly. him as he was, or the version you hoped he’d become?
choosing yourself really is the hardest part.
it was really hard for me to leave my ex too. I stayed with him even after he cheated on me and lied to me multiple times and it was because I missed him alot when we wouldn't talk . I thought I'll never be able to leave him. but you know eventually you get tired of the bullshit and you finally leave and that time you don't want to go back and you start forgetting them.
all the best i know you'll be able to do it .just give yourself sometimes and be kind to yourself.
i stayed after manipulation too, even after the blocking games. knowing they’re wrong for you but still flinching when your phone lights up… yeah. i’ve been there. that pull is REAL
you have to give it time… I promise it gets easier and better but you need to let yourself heal. try cutting ties with him and try to keep yourself distracted as much as possibile…
Same twin, you know what to do, but you can do it. 😞
so true 💯
time heals, keep on moving
yes trying to move on
let it go first.
I really want to move on, but this pain is too heavy.
Every day feels like a battle with my own heart.