I already spent 24 hours of no contact. It’s hard dough. I just hope it gets easier by time. He already messaged me yesterday night and I still don’t know what to do with it. I made him so clear of not texting me, because I need time to heal without him in my life. Should I make him clear one more time? Or just ignore it? and do you guys think it gets easier or just harder? please I need your help
Last updated on:2026-02-08T13:53:12+05:30
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when you imagine replying to him, what are you hoping it gives you right now, relief, clarity, comfort?
relief but that wouldn’t work
when i was here, i learned that replying even to restate boundaries kept me stuck. ignoring felt cruel at first, but it protected my healing.
first 24 hours of no contact felt like withdrawal. my ex texted “just checking in” and it SENT me. i’d already said i needed space too. that confusion hurt more than silence
ignore him
just block him girl
just block him
yeah, block
For my part, when I broke up with him, I blocked him the very day I left him. Not as punishment or anything like that, but to avoid situations like this. Because I know that if he calls me, I'll answer, and that's it, even though the relationship isn't working anymore. And today, it's been 16 days since I started no contact, and he's still blocked because today I'm prioritizing my peace of mind first. And believe me, even if it's difficult, it's the best decision I can make for myself. And yes, of course, it's difficult every day, but it will pass. You just have to have confidence in yourself.