I got my list fot red flags and I’m already over the 30 the biggest red flag is that he’s sex-crazed and likes to degrade women in the bedroom. He wanted to call me slut to he never did, but still wanted to. I don’t understand why I stayed with this man… he also watches porno often I mean get a life
Last updated on:2026-02-08T01:48:59+05:30
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did you feel like you were constantly pushing your own boundaries to keep him interested, or like your comfort never really mattered?
a little bit yeah. Also cause I never did anything further than kissing but letting him do more so he didn’t lost interest
I mean he was much older so I thought if I don’t do it he will find someone his age who will
that must be so hard for you. it feels so degrading and honestly you want them to change but you also know they won't .
Very true
my ex was obsessed with porn and degrading talk too. i kept telling myself it was “just a kink” but it made me feel small and gross. that disconnect messed with my head