- Be sure about leaving..... BE VERY SURE. Both you mind and your heart must agree on leaving. They must agreeeeee.
-Digest your emotions..... loook at them analyze them. before feeling them analyze where they came from and why?
-Sing them, cry them, dance them, talk them, rage them, write them, walk them, work them...... Until there is no them
- Stay out of your head. Just accept what happened as what happened.... you could do nothing to change it, and coming back to change things will often lead to another failure
-Delete any future plans you had with them. Draw a future where they do not exist and do not do it out of rage or despite, do it for you. do it because you want yourself to be happy.
- Accept that there are days better than others. this is life it is not about them! they were just an experience. new people will come, new problems will come.
- DO NOT CONTACT THEM. Not for a fight not for a favor and not because you miss them. ask yourself do i really miss the person or do i just miss the prensce and the feelings they made me feel? remember the feelings you felt are yours! they were never theirs.... and the deep love you had for them is a reflectio of how deep you can love as a person.
- Let go.
Last updated on:2026-02-09T16:20:50+05:30
Comments (4)
when you wrote “do i miss them or the feeling,” what was the honest answer for you at the time? i struggled with that one a LOT
Honestly, I do not miss them. I left emotionally and mentally waaay before actually leaving.
Needed this😫 thank you!
writing something like this after i finally left. the part about mind and heart agreeing, that took me months. i kept going back when only my heart was talking