I have this gut feeling that I’ll never find love again. I just came out of a long-term relationship and while I’m still hung up on my ex I’m not too worried about the present it’s the future that scares me. I feel like I’ll never be able to love aain.
I’m not a very sociable person. My life mostly revolves around running home workouts watching TV and films and baking occasionally. Dating whether in person or online feels impossible for me. I don’t even see myself as attractive which makes it harder.
What terrifies me most is the thought of being alone for the rest of my life especially after spending years with someone by my side.
Last updated on:2026-02-10T19:59:03+05:30
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I am experiencing the same struggle. I've made attempts to try to put myself back out there, but there's this part of me that can't seem to follow through on plans. I also don't have any desire to learn about someone new. No one talks about how difficult it is to go from talking about plans, vulnerabilities, and having frequent, deep, intimate conversations, to going through the interview process to see if you're compatible with someone else.
i can't stop thinking about him 24/7. When I think about dating again and trying to meet new guys I get so anxious and scared.
fully aware now THAT I AM THE LOVE OF MY OWN DAMN LIFE. Never felt more at peace knowing, that no other person will ever define my happiness 100% again.
Don’t be scared. Do what you love - never EVER wait for someone to fulfill your dreams!
There's a phase after a breakup where you feel like that. But don't worry, with time it will change and you'll regain your confidence. For now, just accept it.