so lost

don’t know what to do with my life anymore. hate myself for still being kind to him and texting him again. I’m so so tired. In survival mode now where I don’t feel anything. I need your help. what should I do?

Last updated on:2026-02-12T18:07:22+05:30

Comments (4)

FadingEcho
FadingEcho 3 wks ago

when you say you’re in survival mode and don’t feel anything… is it more numb or more overwhelmed? and what usually happens right before you text him again

FrostBuzz988
FrostBuzz988 3 wks ago

I guess overwhelmed, and before I text him i feel scared and out of peace

NoClosure
NoClosure 3 wks ago

hating myself for still being soft with him. i’d text him after swearing i was done. i felt weak. pathetic. like why can’t i just STOP. but i wasn’t weak. i was trauma bonded and exhausted. survival mode is real. i went numb too for a while

Jeiser
Jeiser 3 wks ago

Hi there! Idk what you're going through, but if u re here...Cheer up, don’t stress too much! Fight for yourself, be a little selfish, put yourself first. Start new habits, keep your mind busy, find new hobbies. Healing takes time and it might hurt sometimes, but you’ll get through it as long as you start taking action and do something about it.