why does it still effect me?

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it's kinda a long story. we broke up then he reached out and we talked in person then agreed to not date and focus on ourselves but that we still loved eachother. he pinky promised to prove to me thing would be different. well they weren't. maybe for two weeks but then he went right back to how he was before we first broke up. I communicated a few times how I felt about it but after it being basically dismissed each time I gave up. I started to lose feelings. but it's been a week since I cut him off and I just noticed he finally blocked me on insta but had a post on his story. obviously I couldn't see it. but idk that just hurts? idk how to just forget him. he promised me.

Last updated on:2026-02-14T01:41:03+05:30

Comments (3)

cringnijja
cringnijja 3 wks ago

he dismissed how you felt, did you feel small or crazy for bringing it up? i’m wondering if the block hurts because it feels like he’s avoiding accountability.

In2pain
In2pain 3 wks ago

when mine did that, i realized the promise hurt more than the breakup. it kept me holding on to potential instead of reality.

kindheart
kindheart 3 wks ago

i went through almost the exact cycle. break up, “let’s focus on ourselves,” still saying i love you, pinky promises and all. he changed for like two weeks too. then same patterns. when he blocked me after i cut him off, it felt like he was rewriting the story. that part STUNG