2 days ago we fell into contact again because he made a tiktok account to repost stuff about me because he “felt bad” then when i text him about it because he knows i would see it he says hes been crying for 3 hours because of his feed showing him stuff about us. he had no intention on being friends or getting back tg he did this for his own selfish reason knowing i would be pulled in. next day i text he goes back to being cold and disrespectful when i texted him a mature message asking for us to end on peaceful terms instead of him treating me like crap. he told me he has no empathy for me anymore, he doesnt owe me respect, he doesnt care about me, he doesnt like me as a person (my personality and how i act?!?!?!) and yeah all that mean stuff. and he basically hurt me bc i hurt him and at least i acknowledged everything i did BUT HE DID NOT ADMIT ANYTHING HE DID. now today i wake up and his account is private and somebody follows him and he follows them. probably a girl, broke down crying because helied to me saying he wouldnt date anyone or talk to a girl for awhile . and if i messed up his mental health he should be taking time to heal and time for himself. im so hurt.
Last updated on:2026-02-15T23:59:54+05:30
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when he said he doesn’t like your personality and doesn’t respect you… did that feel real to you?
yes it did
when someone flips from emotional to cold that fast, i try to remind myself it says more about their chaos than my worth. the private account, the new follow… it’s torture for your brain.
so hes just doing it on purpose?
the vague posts, the “i’ve been crying for hours,” pulling me back in just to go cold the next day. mine also said he had “no empathy” for me. that part BROKE me. it felt like punishment. like he needed me to hurt because he was hurting
I think it's best to keep in no contact as much as possible cause sometimes they not be sure on what next using you as a hold on as they figure out what next step,we hurt they live,your pain means nothing to them but power,so he doesn't deserve that queen let him date whoever ik broken promises hurt but stand up for you and see how he'll regret when you can't even go back
i hope he regrets it. he sees me as a different person now and hates me but will never realize the love i had for him. he doesnt have access to me anymore i deleted my accounts and privated my instagram and changed my username. he knows my roblox username though but ive blocked him there to, he cant come back. only way is if he tries his hardest and maybe id consider it but by the time im numb about it, it jus wont work.
Men aren't like us. They can't even stay single for a day. If all men understood that after a relationship you need time alone, the world would be a thousand times better. Get it out of your head right now that he's going to stay single after your breakup; it's impossible. Move on, let him go. With this kind of person, you don't need to explain; let time teach him.
thank you ❤️ i truly loved this man with my whole heart regardless of what i said when i was mad at him i stayed because i cared. and i hope he realizes that overtime but it will be too late for us when i dont care anymore.