He came back today. And I finally stood up for myself. Do I want to go back and retract? 60/40. 60 being no because I really want him to hear me and I am tired of it all. 40 is me just wanting to cry and beg for him to do better so we work through it.
I love him sooooo much. But he doesn't get it.
Doing the right thing kind of sucks. Anyway, "I gotta find peace of mind" I guess.
Last updated on:2026-02-19T04:05:06+05:30
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It really hurts trying to save a person who doesn’t want to be saved
you say he doesn’t get it, what is the one thing you’ve been begging him to understand? is it about respect, effort, consistency?
yes! All of above. And I feel like theses things flow naturally for someone you love. And his only way if expressing love us through control. Which I do not like
when i was in that space, i had to remind myself that wanting him back didn’t mean i made the wrong choice. it just meant i loved him
you deserve peace
i’ve been that 60/40 split. i stood my ground and then went home and SOBBED because all i wanted was for him to just get it. loving someone who doesn’t hear you is exhausting