so I thought I would never have to ask you guys again because I am done with him but, I like to have answers to not overthink about is. I know that only he can give me the right answer to this but that is definitely not an option.
so short recap: we broke up 4½ Month ago. he is and was very childish. he just wanted space, I didn't gave him that so he blocked me on WhatsApp and unfollowed everywhere like Instagram. so I got it and never reached out again.
step by step he removed out of groups with friends evene when he said, he wanted to be friends after that (we all know that doesn't work but I thought we could be more than strangers but less than friends-just talk like normal people)
I am over him, I date a new guy and it feels good.
But today an old classmate send me a video, that my ex is on Tinder. He used old pictures that I made. I laughed because I don't care but I think its funny. so later that day I wanted to look up his Instagramaccount - Nothing found. Checked everything to find him but it seems he blocked me now.
so the question is why now? does it still triggers him to see my profil? or does he just want more distance so a new person couldn't think something strange? but we already unfollowed each other and I didn't do anything.
so just why, it doesn't make sence to me
please tell me what you think because I dont know and I want an answer for my head that I can live with
Last updated on:2026-02-24T00:36:48+05:30
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when you searched his instagram and couldn’t find it, did it actually feel funny, or did it sting a little? sometimes when i say “i don’t care,” there’s still a tiny part of me that does
of course I still care
like why would I search for his Instagram if I didn't care anymore and I think a part of me will always care about him. but not in a romantic way anymore. thats the difference. It still hurt a little bit and sometimes I think about him. But so do I about the Ex for him, and the ex bevor this ex ect.
we were close and thats because why I care about him but still don't wanna be in a relationship anymore with him
i’ve learned that when something “doesn’t make sense,” it usually means i’m trying to apply logic to someone who moves emotionally and impulsively. blocking you now could be about him dating, about ego, about not wanting reminders.
my ex did the same thing. wanted “space,” blocked me everywhere, said we could be friends, then slowly erased me from group chats like i never existed. months later he randomly blocked me again even though we weren’t even connected anymore. i remember thinking WHY now?? it messed with my head more than the breakup. sometimes their actions say more about their discomfort than our behavior
out of sight... out of mind ... thats how a lot of ppl work so thats why
but just because you don't see someone anymore doesn't mean he dont think about it anymore. thats not how our brain works
@KokoFizz621 true ... not all but some of us