I cry every night while he’s with someone else. I don’t understand how he could go from loving me to resenting me in just 30 days all because I cared enough to reach out to his parents. I did everything for him even when he had no car no money and was struggling with addiction.
He cheated he lied and yet I still feel shattered. He’s single now claiming his new relationship was “short‑lived.” On Valentine’s Day I worked 14 hours just to avoid thinking about him but still broke down the moment I got home. Meanwhile he was busy buying things for another woman when he barely had money in his account weeks ago.
No one at his job knows the truth how narcissistic he was how quickly he threw me away once he had someone else lined up. He says I broke his trust but he destroyed mine when he took my car to buy drugs while I was asleep. I told his parents because I saw him declining every day and now I’m punished for trying to help.
He tells me to let go as if he didn’t love me just a month ago. I feel lost confused and broken.
Last updated on:2026-02-25T03:55:40+05:30
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worst feelings ever
The fact that they are happy while we are the one crying,that's the worst thing anyone can go through.
Get away. If you have kids, can you imagine them turning out to be like him? Uuggghhhh sorry you have a pos ex too
btw just did an EMDR therapy session on youtube, picturing them together. it really helps take away some of the emotional load and jealousy.
You did nothing wrong. He is sick. He is not well. He is disordered. It’s not you, it’s him. Your only mistake was not vetting better, but you did not cause his behavior. He would have left no matter what you did. You are not his savior. You are not crazy. You’ve been blindsided and deeply wounded.
my ex is now with her new crush. feels terrible. the images. the feeling of being replaced. cuts right through to the bone. i know its better in the long run, but my heart doesnt agree and theres nothing right now that can soothe my pain.