Day 30 of no contact after breakup: A Heartfelt Message I Can't Send

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Since I'm in no contact with him, I'll just put the message I want to send him here.❤️‍🩹

Hi love, How are you doing? I miss you. Sometimes I wonder if you also miss me like I do. You know, whenever I'm missing you and have the urge of messaging you, I try so hard to stop myself and instead, I pray to God. I pray that Lord, I will not message him, but in your miraculous ways, let him know that I am missing him so much. I miss you so much love. Its been 30 days. i miss u

Last updated on:2026-02-26T03:06:03+05:30

Comments (6)

Tearbit
Tearbit 5 days ago

when you imagine him knowing you miss him, what are you hoping would happen next?

tenButt01
tenButt01 5 days ago

i won’t tell you to stop missing him. of course you do. but when i was at day 30, i kept reminding myself that every urge i didn’t act on was me choosing my dignity.

Dreamer01
Dreamer01 5 days ago

i used to write texts in my notes app during no contact instead of sending him. whole paragraphs. “i miss you” over and over. 30 days felt like 300. praying instead of reaching out? i did that too. just hoping somehow they’d feel me missing them. it’s such a quiet kind of heartbreak

Bambi37
Bambi37 6 days ago

May i know the story to why you sperated?

JoyLover931
JoyLover931 6 days ago

He cheated and lied to me multiple times. He did not treat me right. He is an avoidant. He always pushes me away. He never makes an effort to fix our problem. And he told me he does not want to change for me.

Bambi37
Bambi37 6 days ago

@JoyLover931 so what exactly is that u miss about him? just curious