today is the second day of being blocked by my ex.
he blocked me everywhere, and i've been feeling miserable. deep down, i'm not willing to let it end like this.. but it's not in my control, and it kills me.
i was trying to fix things between us, and he was letting me. until yesterday, he said he thought about it and he made up his mind. he said he appreciates me trying to fix things, but he's sure he can't give us another go. he said his feelings faded instead of strengthened.
i decided to respect the no contact, for my own peace. but.. i'm still hoping to win him back sometime in the future.
i'd appreciate any thoughts, comments or advice on my situation. thank you!
Last updated on:2026-02-27T00:35:58+05:30
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if he came back tomorrow, would you feel secure? or would you always be scared his feelings might “fade” again
i wouldn't feel 100% secure, since he did leave me quite harshly. he lost feelings for me in just 2 weeks, at most 3, so i'm not assured about his feelings towards me anymore. also, recently, he seems to have a relation with another person i know, but it's unclear. regardless, if he
puts enough time and effort into rekindling, things may possibly work out.
i’ll be honest, when someone says they’ve made up their mind, i try to believe them. not because i want to, but because fighting it kept me stuck
right.. i'm stuck. i try to believe him, but because i still have feelings for him & i value everything we had, there's still a little bit of hope in me left.
staring at that “blocked” screen like it was a death certificate. i tried to fix everything too. i thought if i just loved harder it would come back. when he said his feelings faded, that part really HURT. i still hoped he’d change his mind for months you’re not crazy for hoping. that’s just your heart not ready to let go yet.
i hope everything worked out for you! as of currently, i really don't want to let go, but he's being so harsh. sigh, i don't really know anymore.