Dreaming of My Avoidant Ex 31 Times – Is It Normal?

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it's been 4 month no contact 8 month break up good I don't feel anything I don't know why I dream her even I don't think miss her

Last updated on:2026-02-28T00:07:09+05:30

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Riffta
Riffta 3 days ago

when you wake up from those dreams, do you feel sad… or just annoyed? sometimes the emotion after the dream tells you more than the dream itself

nike
nike 3 days ago

I feel confuse then im thinking it's just unfinished thing I don't feel anything I don't even wan her back after realize red flag why not work

Memories01
Memories01 4 days ago

for me, dreaming didn’t mean i still wanted them. it was just my brain processing unfinished stuff. 4 months no contact is solid. sometimes the body takes longer to catch up than the mind

nike
nike 4 days ago

u right I don't wan her cuz been so long it's just unfinished

Dreamstrue
Dreamstrue 4 days ago

ugh the dreams 😩 i swear they hit harder than real life sometimes. i was 5 months no contact and feeling “fine” too, then boom… my avoidant ex shows up in my sleep like nothing happened. i’d wake up confused because i didn’t even miss them during the day. it messed with my head. you’re not weird for this.

nike
nike 4 days ago

ayy my twin. wow 5 month u doing good sis keep up stay strong even it hard
u right thk u comfort yes I don't wan them back cuz red flag so long ghost lack bare minimum Text idgf cold dry mean then evil fuck them send u love hug sis stay strong u not alone hope u heal move on