We was messaging abitt here & then, then a week ago I said I'd leave him be & would contact him nearer the time I was moving out so he could sort the internet out. He said its for the best so we can both move on I said I know he already has & I'm glad he's happier ect. Anyways he knows when I actually get served notice it will be 2 months from when they say so it's a long time away. After what seemed like a very long week to me of not contacting he has messaged to say give me a shout when you're moving out so I can rearrange the internet. Am I stupid for reading too much into it? Like I already told you I would so why feel the need to message a week later? It's annoying because I still want him more then anything 😔
Last updated on:2026-03-02T22:52:16+05:30
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if he hadn’t sent that message, would you have felt more at peace this week? or were you already hoping he’d reach out?
I would of felt more at peace. I was starting to feel better. Since then I've seen his insta with an initial & a rose so looks like hes got someone new already. I've arranged to just have it moved over now & I'll get a new provider
Yeah I think that's what I've done especially has he hearted the last message I sent which was just good. But I have to remind myself hes fine without me & he's not trying to initiate a further conversation
for me, those random check in type messages kept reopening the wound. even if they were about normal stuff.
he give mix signals if he not aploogize fix WAn get back don't reply him sometime ex keep text he feel bad he bad guy if u keep reply he think he can always text be friends without label
i used to overanalyze every “practical” text from my ex. like why are you reminding me about bills when i ALREADY said i would handle it? 😩 i’d spiral thinking it meant he missed me. sometimes it was just logistics… but my heart didn’t care. i still wanted him too.
he's definitely Just missing you but don't read too much into it.