No disrespect to ANYONE, but Lord PLEASE don’t send me another man that’s emotionally damaged, can’t communicate, can’t take accountability, depressed, confused, and allergic to responsibility. I am NOT the therapist, the rehab, or the prayer hotline.
I don’t want nobody else’s man — married, separated, “it’s complicated,” none of that. I don’t want a man with no backbone, no direction, and no control over his life trying to lean on mine.
I love hard, but I’m not about to be drained trying to fix a grown man who don’t even wanna fix himself.
Lord, keep that type of man FAR from me.
I don’t need potential — I need PEACE ✨
Lord, grant me a partner who is more than just a lover.
Let them be my best friend, my confidant, my spiritual collaborator and my teacher.
Help me find the one who helps me face the things I don’t want to face alone.
The person I eat with, laugh with and the person that makes me learn new things about myself.
Amen."
Last updated on:2026-03-01T07:27:02+05:30
Comments (11)
you think about the last guy like this, what was the first red flag you felt but maybe talked yourself out of? i’ve done that more times than i can count
he love bombs me then disapear then bring me down
amennn
i used to attract the “broken but sweet” ones. couldn’t communicate, allergic to accountability, leaning on me like i was her whole emotional support system. i called it love. it was exhaustion. saying “i need PEACE” was the first boundary i ever meant.
I'm just going to point out the obvious here. "I don't want a man who needs me" but in the same breath "please God send me a man I can lean on". Can't have one without the other. It's fine to want someone stable. But if your expectations are out in the world to find someone to provide something you don't want to you'll be posting this prayer for a long time.
you are right
"I totally agree with you. Balance and reciprocity are key in any relationship."
Amen 🙏 Manifesting this for you, for me, and all the ladies that deserves this kind of love!!! 🙏✨️💛
I love your post. thank you for sharing this prayer.Amen. 🙏
Please share this widely, my sister, Amen 🤍
ok my sister