I was with him for a year and went on and off for half a year which was exhausting. I was the one to break up with him because I felt like he couldn't become the person that would confidently stand next to me. I honestly think he lacked the capacity to actually grow and become better and unfortunately he bread crumbed me and showed me his potential, but never got to it fully. He would always use excuses as reasons to why he's acting the way he is. I was willing to get back with him in this period and he suddenly started texting less, being less interested, but when we would talk f2f or meet (even have intimacy) he would say how much he loves me and how I am the biggest part of his life and I'm irreplaceable. I found out he was talking to someone else and he lied to me about this the whole time. He kept with the love messages and denied that him talking to another girl is not romantically. I feel betrayed and empty. What are your guy's thoughts on this? What's your advice?
Last updated on:2026-03-02T13:32:03+05:30
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do you think you were in love with him, or with the version of him he showed you in those intense face to face moments
i can feel ur pain i’ve lived that exact breadcrumb cycle. the “i love you, you’re irreplaceable” in person… then cold and distant over text. i kept believing in his potential too. not who he was, but who he could be. finding out he was talking to someone else after all those love speeches? that betrayal hits DEEP