Why am i stalking my ex? a heartfelt confession

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the amount of times i stalked my ex and the person he has something going on with over the past few days is just ridiculously unhealthy. i have to stop. i don't want to
be stuck in this loop of stress, anxiety and uncertainty anymore. i uninstalled the app on my phone and ipad so i can STOP CHECKING HIS ACTIVITY 24/7. i genuinely
hope this will help.

i don't deserve this pain. i don't deserve to be kept waiting and hoping for a miracle. so what if he doesn't come back?

saying "my feelings faded" after barely three weeks of breaking up, then associating himself with someone else right after, is more immature than ever.

he pushed me away so harshly. there's no reason for me to put effort into someone who is NOT PUTTING EFFORT INTO ME ANYMORE. i'm done.

Last updated on:2026-03-02T15:10:05+05:30

Comments (7)

ColdAshes
ColdAshes 14 hrs ago

you think you’re more hurt by him moving on fast, or by how harshly he pushed you away

crownking
crownking 18 hrs ago

ugh i did the 24/7 stalking too. convinced myself i was “just checking once” and then boom, 3 hours gone and my chest on fire uninstalling the app was the only thing that gave me a little peace. you’re not crazy. that loop is REAL.

HappyDaze122
HappyDaze122 2 days ago

Sorry just saw about you saying you uninstalled the apps

HappyDaze122
HappyDaze122 2 days ago

Can you not just block them? Easier said then done I know but it might be for the best

mzsyu
mzsyu 2 days ago

i can, but it won't do much since i'm already blocked by him everywhere, i can't interact with him directly. and unfortunately, even blocking doesn't stop me from being attached. i have other ways of going around the block to see what he's doing. but i don't want to do that anymore because it hurts me. uninstalled the app so it helps me to get him out of sight, out of mind.

HappyBliss834
HappyBliss834 2 days ago

Stay strong dear, I experienced similar, forget about him and become the best version of yourself, good luck

mzsyu
mzsyu 2 days ago

thank you, i appreciate your kind words 🥹