Well can somebody tell me if it was my fault or his for the break up and if I should contact him or not
Well we were going through a rough time, and we broke up but I did a lot of effort and begging to save the relationship and I did, we patched up, and everything was going great then a few days later we were talking normally and while waiting for his message for 1 hour, I had fallen asleep and when I woke up the next day, I was blocked from everywhere without any explanation and when my friend asked him why he did it, he said that his mental health is not good so he just did it.
He was talking to me so normally, hanging out with friends, going out and his mental health was not good? what about mine as I had spend days saving the relationship while he was pulling away only to get blocked from everywhere when everything got back to normal and that too without any explanation making me overthink everything
Last updated on:2026-03-13T14:50:04+05:30
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i feel the frustration in this. when someone disappears like that after you fought so hard for the relationship
i had an ex do the same thing, things felt normal one day and the next morning i was blocked everywhere like i never existed. that kind of silence messes with your head so much, you keep replaying every moment wondering what you missed.
yeah, at least he should have given an reason before ghosting me
I hear how much pain you’re in, and I can see how heavily this is weighing on you. I can only imagine how confusing and hurtful this feels right now, especially when you put so much of your heart into trying to save things.
I could be totally off base, so please correct me if I’m wrong, but it sounds like this relationship was taking a significant toll on both of your mental health. It is incredibly exhausting to feel like you have to beg or carry the full weight of a relationship on your own. I want you to know that you are deeply worthy of love, and you are far too amazing to ever have to beg for it.
I’ve been where you are. During a past breakup, I also begged for my ex back, and looking back, I wish I hadn't. I wish I hadn't been the only one putting in the effort. You deserve a partnership where the energy is equal and reciprocated.
I found a lot of peace watching 'Ms. Matured' on Facebook; her cartoon videos offer some really insightful perspectives on relationship dynamics that helped me realize I was in a one-sided situation. I’m also currently going through a course called 'Breakup Boot Camp' by Amy Chan. It’s just five minutes a day, but it’s been so helpful for my own healing and processing.
When things don't work out, it’s rarely 100% one person's fault. It’s usually a mix of timing, communication, and where people are at mentally. It wasn’t fair that he blocked you without an explanation, but if he is saying he needs to focus on his mental health, the kindest thing you can do for both of you is to respect that boundary.
Please use this time to focus entirely on yourself and your own healing. You deserve to be at peace.
aww, this is really sweet💗