Why i finally deleted our chats

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i finally deleted all our chats. i didnt want to but seeing the chats makes me have the urge read all the messages all over again and makes me cling on to hope. its over, i want it to be over.

Last updated on:2026-03-17T06:46:50+05:30

Comments (13)

SweetChill
SweetChill a mth ago

am in the same situation 😭

Unhealed
Unhealed a mth ago

Good for you! Recovery is easier without constant triggers. I wish you all the best. Keep using this app. It really helps. ❤️

WavyChill325
WavyChill325 a mth ago

but how do u feel that's the thing or question

imemonow
imemonow a mth ago

regretted a little and felt bittersweet, erased over a year worth of conversations

HushMoo449
HushMoo449 a mth ago

@imemonow you did the right thing. your memories are still real.

EptyPromise
EptyPromise a mth ago

did you delete them all in one go or were you sitting there for a while staring at the screen before finally pressing delete?

biblolo
biblolo a mth ago

when i deleted our messages it was the first time i actually chose my own peace over the tiny hope i kept feeding.

BlazeFox967
BlazeFox967 a mth ago

keep your head up, keep moving forward, and knoe your not alone friend 🧡

Ellen81
Ellen81 a mth ago

I had to do the same thing, I deleted all of his messages and photos, and got rid of everything he ever got me, because I couldn't keep going back, for my own sake I need to move on and you need to do the same.

BOBO224
BOBO224 a mth ago

i did the same but I am not able to delete the photos

Hyfaa
Hyfaa a mth ago

same

imemonow
imemonow a mth ago

me too

flowerist
flowerist a mth ago

i had to delete our chats too because i kept rereading them at 2am like maybe i’d find some hidden meaning that said he still loved me. hitting delete hurt like hell but it was the only way i could stop reopening the wound.