Everytime we end up talking again, and he eventually leaves, I get heartbroken all over again, and everytime again he tells me I need to move on and stop thinking about him and stuff, but HE is the one that contacts me, and in the past HE was the one to say "I miss you" or "I love you" and he always brings up our past and stuff, I think that might be his way of moving on, but why does he continue to contact me or anything if he wants me to MOVE ON đ it's frustrating
Last updated on:2026-03-18T10:56:32+05:30
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Itâs the same for me. We broke up so many times, maybe 8 or 10 already. Whenever I try to move on, after one or two months he comes back and says sorry again. Iâm really tired of this cycle.
when he reaches out and says those things, does it feel like he actually wants you back, or does it feel more like he just misses the comfort of you being there?
that push and pull is brutal.đ„ș
i know this cycle way too well. my ex used to pop back into my life saying âi miss youâ and bringing up old memories, then disappear again and tell me i needed to move on. every time i started healing heâd reopen the wound. it messes with your head so much.
Did you ever get over him?
stop letting him disrespect you?? STOP contacting him. he's letting you on!!!
when he contacts you, he is doing âtemperature checksâ to see if he still matters in your world. every time you answer, it makes him feel in control and that youâll never move forward. Stop responding when he reaches out. Nothing is changing except the date on the calendar. You deserve so much more and so much better. Donât feed into his bs
it's so hard to think of him as that kind of guy, but I guess I shouldn't expect too much, I just didn't want him to fit in the box that every other shitty ex boyfriend fits in
and like, last time we talked, during one of our phone calls we ended up reading the letters we wrote to each other during our relationship when he was away ( it's only like 2 letters) and I read mine that he gave me, and idk it felt nostalgic or smt, but it didn't really.. hurt I guess, except I heard him kinda sniffiling and crying but it wasn't very loud or obvious so I didn't say anything about it but idk i think about it
@ChillNights317 itâs okay to think about it. youâre human. you just had to resist the urge to let it consume you.
@ChillNights317 trust me, you never want to think of them that way but unfortunately, the facts remain the same.