a big goal in life is for me to find MY person, im only 16 and i already feel like i wont find someone for me after a devastating breakup, and i know im still young and have a lot ahead of me but for some reason im so focused on the fact that i wont find the right person or will never obtain a relationship.
Last updated on:2026-10-22T04:32:54+05:30
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feeling like my first big heartbreak had ruined my chances of ever finding that kind of love again. when you've pictured a whole future with someone, losing them makes it hard to imagine anyone else fitting into that space
hi sweetie! I was 16 when I broke up with the guy for the first time trust me you still have so much time to build the best future for you ❤️ I’m 26 now and it took me a lot of time to understand that he wasn’t the one for me and have found the love of my life trust me you will too just don’t let the same flame burn you twice
thanks you I needed to hear this it rlly helps💗
i know how scary it feels when finding your person is such a big dream of yours.
hi angel you are so very young and have so so much time to find yourself. like tht old saying goes if u take care of the pennies the pounds will take care of themselves !!! u are just a penny and ur dreams of love are the pound so just take care of urself girlie and anything that is meant for u will practically fall into ur lap <3 p.s. stay in school x
thank you I’ve never heard that saying but that really helped i appreciate it!
i felt the same way after my first devastating breakup, and i'm curious, do you miss that person specifically, or are you more scared that you'll never find someone who loves you the way you've always dreamed of
im scared ill never find someone and i miss him we fought a lot but I think im honestly just extremely physically attracted to him
that's very sad amd heartbreaking for a 16 year old , you've got a whole way ahead , it's so devastating after a relationship where you thought a about them every hour , never been a fay you havent talked. that's really sad 😢
yeah im trying to change my mindset but for some reason im so scared of being alone forever just because one relationship didn’t work out
@lex10 you're yet 16 , girl there's a long life ahead , count the breakup as childhood mistake 😉 , im 17 btw
@Drakarys yeah It’s so annoying how he took such a toll on me now I feel like I won’t find someone like him because he love bombed me but I felt like he actually loved me but I think he just manipulated me.