Why did i text him on day 27?

Don't beat yourself up . It happens and it's all part of the process

you should not think of this as a loss be happy you made it to a month i am only on day 9 and the urge to text something like can we talk etc runs through my mind so often. a month sounds so far away. good job to you for holding out for so long

what made you text him last night? was it a wave of missing him, or were you hoping he'd say something that would make things feel better?

BoldSpirit426 10 hrs ago

I really just wanted to hear from him because I miss having him around so much

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healing takes time... try again again and again.. after all its your life u have to take responsibility. forgive yourself love yourself and just go with the flow. we stand steadily after falling many times, so just accept it and move on. u r gonna do great in future ❤️❤️❤️

thinking one text meant i'd ruined all my progress, but it didn't. i just started again the next day and tried to be kinder to myself instead of punishing myself for missing someone.

girl, please don't beat yourself up over one text 😔 i broke no contact after weeks too, and the shame i felt afterward was almost worse than missing him. healing is messy sometimes.

HappyNest860 2 days ago

The shame is always the worst feeling ever😪 I can relate gurlll.

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you’re only human, don’t beat yourself up about it. You will come back stronger. I bet on day 1 you never thought you’d get to 27 🤍 big hugs, you’ve got this

HappyNest860 2 days ago

I second this💯

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Let's try to take something from this, now you know that the next time you feel the urge to text him, you can remember that after you do that, you feel worse and not better. It might help you to resist next time.
As for the moment, be gentle with yourself, you don't have to be perfect and the way is a rollercoaster
lots og hugs! ❤️‍🩹