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To the men in this place

To the men in this place, kindly help me understand him. I had to break no contact cause of our children. We needed to come to an understanding on how to co-parent. He hit me with this statement, 'I w

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What do you do when you are angry?

What do you do when you are angry? After realizing i have detached, he decides to find a therapist for couples counseling. Honestly, I'm not interested in going because i know i might lash out but i h

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Broke no contact today for our kids

Broke no contact today for our kids. He was so used to me being there for him and fighting for our 9 year marriage but now he realized that he just might have lost me. I told him i needed space to mov

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Just discovered his mindset

Just discovered his mindset. Apparently, he thinks after all the manipulation and gaslighting, he will come and I'll accept him back. But thing is, he pushed me away to a point where I learnt how to e

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Today i broke no contact

Today i broke no contact, i talked to him and discovered that it's time for a new birth. At times, its important for us to discover that we deserve better and today was that day for me.