Am i going crazy after my breakup?
He ended things in July without any warning or signs. Since then things have been up and down and I feel as though I am actually healing. yesterday he arrives at the house to collect the dog. He knew
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shared care of pet
Me and the ex got a dog together during our relationship. My ex is the legal owner and is on all of the paperwork. He has agreed for us to maintain shared care, however I don’t know how sustainable
Engagement ring
After 7 and a half years and being engaged he ended the relationship without a clear explanation. If he asks for the engagement ring back do I return this?
1st Christmas single
Today I have been lucky enough to have had my family with me to cause a distraction. The memories of celebrating Christmas together as a family hit hard but I managed to keep myself busy to focus on t
It’s almost been 4 months
Things have slowly moved forward. I am feeling better in myself but still have days where I miss him. I still wonder if he has regrets for ending things the way he did. We are on speaking terms (only
My heart aches
I miss him so much. The company, our talks.. holding hands as we sleep. I can’t even sleep on his side of the bed. I really wish I could move forward. I feel like I take one step forward and two ba
how do you stop the feeling of missing them?
I find myself still caring about my ex and wondering what they are doing and if they are ok. He truly turned my life upside down and has caused my son to spiral with his own emotional wellbeing. Thing
Back to square one
This week has been so emotionally exhausting. The court case concluded. Yesterday we met to do doggy handover and for the first time in weeks we spoke. I broke down and told him everything that has
Reflections
I have moments where I just miss his presence, company and our old routine. I feel like I’ve turned in to a horrible person because of how much I have bitten and stooped to his level with the ongo
Today he officially moved out
Today he officially moved out. The sight of him packing up his things really knocked me for six. I felt a range of emotions, anger, frustration and hurt all rolled in to one. I cried myself to sleep t
Although we are still living in the same household- today I started packing up my belongings and
Although we are still living in the same household- today I started packing up my belongings and although I don’t know how long I will have to remain here a range of emotions came over me… hurt, a
I feel so mad right now
I feel so mad right now. I have no choice but to remain living with my ex until I can move back to my own home (it’s currently being rented out). me and my son (16) have just returned from a weeks h
Drinking alcohol during the day alone really does not help 😭 It has really made me feel ten times worse
Drinking alcohol during the day alone really does not help 😭 It has really made me feel ten times worse, but particularly mulling over what I did wrong to deserve such treatment. I hate what you ha
The night before last it all kicked off between my ex and teenage son
The night before last it all kicked off between my ex and teenage son. His bottled up feelings came out and he lashed out, telling the ex what he thought of him. I struggled with the situation so much
I feel like I’ve woken up from the spell
I feel like I’ve woken up from the spell. I can now see him (the Ex) as a very difficult and not nice person to be around. He claims to care about me but makes me feel as though I am Dumb and don
Day 13 post break up
Day 13 post break up. Today I have not communicated with the Ex at all. I am staying away for the next few days and in all honesty I feel a mix of emotions and don’t know where my head is at. As sta
Day 12 post break up
Day 12 post break up. Only had one day where I have not balled my eyes out. I know it will get easier and am taking it day by day. What I can’t understand is who is the person who I have been commi
Today was hard. I wallowed in self pity all day and made myself sleep
Today was hard. I wallowed in self pity all day and made myself sleep. Afterwards things seemed clearer and me and my Ex spoke calmly. I identified that I have been really nasty and hostile due to my
I just can’t cope today
I just can’t cope today. I have no solutions for my situation. I feel so alone in the world and can’t think straight. I feel like packing a bag and disappearing for a few days- but can’t. I feel
Today has been the worst day of my life
Today has been the worst day of my life. I’ve never felt emotions such as this. Telling my son 15 the news of the breakup and him blaming himself, despite offering reassurance that he is not the cau
I’m on day 5 and the atmosphere at home still remains raw
I’m on day 5 and the atmosphere at home still remains raw. I’ve really started to see him in a different light. he has turned cold and I get the feeling that I irritate him being in the house he h
I’m on day 3 and reality remains my new normal
I’m on day 3 and reality remains my new normal. Yes I cried today but found getting out of the house helpful. I went and did some retail therapy and felt sad when looking for things in shops and th
break up day 2. reality has kicked in and he has moved in to the spare room
break up day 2. reality has kicked in and he has moved in to the spare room. I don’t know how I will cope living like this until I can sort out the mess he has left me in.