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It gets better!

Hi guys, I decided to share that it's the first few days in a row in 3 months (that's when my relationship with my ex dismissive avoidant ended) I had very good days. Ive laughed, and felt lighter. do

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Im tempted to send him birthday wishes

although im on day 60of NC and I know this is a super stupid idea. ive been doing well until last week. I think I associate autumn with him and it is a trigger for me. also It's Kindness Day today whe

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Another guy asked me out

My avoidant left me 4weeks ago. Its been 25 days no contact. Last night i went out for Timeleft dinner, just to go out and come out of my comfort zone, talk to other people, have fun. I enjoyed it a l

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Can you tell me something nice?

Hi, i've been two weeks no contact and I'm very happy about it. I feel lighter and I know it's for the best. All the negativity and moaning that he is all about is gone from my life and im feeling mys

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bumping into your ex

I bumped into my ex, he broke up with me over the phone 3 days ago. i blocked him everywhere and im doing no contact with him. and it brings me relief, i wasnt happy in this relationship so i know it'