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Why do breakups hurt so much? my 96 days of hope

I was 96 days in then I failed. I’m so disappointed in myself. I thought it would be different this time. it’s has only been 7 days and he showed me why we broke up. I feel so foolish. so back to

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day 93

what I’ve been thinking about today is, I hate how unfair everything can be. you know you try to do right in a relationship and even if u mess up, you think someone would forgive you the way you wou

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self worth.

I can’t stop thinking about… how easily I was replaced. 5years we were together. we have over a decade of history. I’m on day 78 & he has her involved with his kids and family now- from what I s

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day 70

day 70. no reaching out. no looking at old photos or re reading messages. everyday he still pops up in my mind. some days I still cry not as much tho. & when I do cry it’s more so of me realizing ho

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day 60

day 60 no reaching out, no re reading old messages no looking at old photos. technically no contact, I ran into him 2x on accident, kept it short & no eye contact. even though after both times, my hea

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he contacts

quick update me and my guy were together for five years. We broke up on Halloween. This is day 51 no contact. We both loved each other a lot but we decided it’s best split up. took my child to the m

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relapse I guess

now I know why they say heartbreak/breakup is like a drug. feels like k just relapsed. day 47 no contact. 4year relationship we had problems we couldn’t fix. I took accountability and I was willing

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day 40

I seen this quote, “You will never find someone better than me, but you will find someone better for you.” It brings peace & sadness, knowing both is true…

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silent grief

day 37, silent grief is the worse. the longing for him I cannot stand. some say “ooh you should talk about it, it helps with healing” or “don’t push the thoughts away, it’ll come back strong

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day 30 😪

Day 30 no contact, no looking at old photos, not re-reading old messages. there was a incidental run in at the store. but lasted 2mins. Overall it does get somewhat better. Theres days I’m fine then

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stuck

I’m stuck. I have this “hope” that I don’t want anymore. my brain knows he won’t come back but heart is having a hard time letting go. my heart feels like there even a small chance he’ll c

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hope 💔

day 19, and I’ve been feeling so great these last couple days. thought I was making progress. was telling myself to get your hopes up on him anymore it’s time to focus on you. it’s time to move

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was I the problem.

me and my guy were highschool sweet heart who rekindle after 8years. we were together for 5 years. recently he told me he wanted to be single. I begged him not to do this I promise change and better v