I have started nocontact since the breakup. we still have to exchange our things, and I have a very large bookshelf that needs to come back to me. I have told myself that after my conventions I work, I will reach out to him. It will be about six weeks from now. I have blocked him and he thankfully has no social media.
is six weeks okay? Or should I wait longer?
Last updated on:2026-03-23T20:55:04+05:30
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are you waiting because of timing, or because seeing him again feels like it might set you back?
honestly i’d just get it done sooner and keep it quick, no emotions, no catching up. i waited too long and it made it heavier than it needed to be.
i did this too, left stuff with my ex and dragged it out because i didn’t want to break no contact. i waited weeks and it just sat in my head the whole time, like unfinished business.
if i were u, and it is really needed or a must to exchange, I'd just go right now and get things exchanged with him and move on, i don't think I'd wait long, it ll delay the healing, hope you have a good day❤️