Why going no contact is so hard after a breakup

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it's been almost 4 days sonce the no contact has started but i miss him like crazy. i have got the urge to break the no contact. i don't know how do i deal with this. it hurts a lot.

Last updated on:2026-04-06T13:22:03+05:30

Comments (6)

atticat
atticat 2 wks ago

what usually hits you the hardest when the urge comes up, is it certain memories or just the silence where he used to be?

tiktikLL
tiktikLL 2 wks ago

day 3 or 4 being the WORST… i’d be fine one minute then reaching for my phone the next like it had a mind of its own. i missed him so bad it felt physical, like this ache that wouldn’t quit.

letitgo_user
letitgo_user 2 wks ago

it will get better, just keep yourself busy, do stuff that you enjoy doing. The first weeks are always the hardest.

NovaWave
NovaWave 2 wks ago

start listening to podcasts Any type of it would help. and you could text ChatGPT and help you too

user75
user75 2 wks ago

just keep ur mind busy so that i don't think of him that much

lonelygirl0
lonelygirl0 2 wks ago

I don't know how we do it but I can tell you that we do. We keep going.