My ex/father of my child sent me an email a few days ago then texted me and called. He sent an email filled with lies and felt a strong urge to defend myself. I wish I had never answered because this is what he lives for. He's been absent for 4 months, total silent without checking on our daughter then comes back like nothing happened and demanded to see our daughter without taking any accountability then had the audacity to blame me for him not seeing her when HE is the one that keeps disappearing for months! I am no longer responding to him! I'm done! If he wants to take me to court (which I doubt he will), he can go ahead and do that.
Last updated on:2026-04-06T21:38:03+05:30
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has he ever actually shown up consistently for your daughter, or is it always this cycle of disappearing and coming back when it suits him?
not responding was the only thing that gave me peace. i stopped explaining myself to someone who twisted everything anyway, and it took his power away bit by bit.
my ex used to disappear and then pop back in like nothing happened, acting like i was the problem for reacting. that kind of gaslighting makes you question your own reality. you’re not crazy for being DONE.
Hey, you breaking NC this final time may have been needed to convince yourself he is so harmful to you. Look at this Day 1 as a victory. Your perception of the reality has forever changed. You now have your head on straight and have the power to move onto your best life, for you and your child. Today is a win!
that is such a dick move!