he asked that we don't unfriend/unfolded each other, and I want to respect that. but seeing him go out and update on socials more than he updated me during our rs hurts me deeply. I broke no contact yesterday, just to update him on my mother's status on her surgery. he wasn't unkind but he's also not un-cruel. I dont miss him, I miss being valued. I miss being heard. I miss being wanted. I dont want to look for anyone anymore. I'm so tired. I made a promise to myself and to a friend when I'm 27 I'll start opening my heart again. For now, I need to focus on my mother, career and myself.
Last updated on:2026-07-26T11:31:12+05:30
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if you muted him today, do you think it would feel like giving up on him, or finally giving yourself a little peace?
I think personality you should block him om everything. I tried to be friends eith me ex on socials and I was constantly checking on him and worried, in reality he just wanted to be left alone. the best thing u can do is keep yourself from making those impulsive decisions
u should unfriend him, he's cruel wanting you to see him leaving his bestlife without caring for you, no contact is no stalking no talking, just focus on yourself