I broke no contact rule for returen his loan amount and he was like are you mad..i dont need this this.thoese things i have done for you ..and then he return the amount again..and he said stay safe that all i want ,i broke up with him because after 3 years he cant understand me.how my love is ,what i do when i was angry..and he dont fix things ..when i left after suffering from his silent maximum a week and then he drop a message how he loves me again we stay,so i cant do it any more ..and my explanation turn into an argument .so i stopped.Now after 3 days i broke the rule and talk.also he told me to tell anything without hiding if i have a difficult time..me also told that for him.and then agin said good bye.I am really sad andi dont know how to discrub myself in this situation .I feeling like we were in a loop ...thats why i stopped..also when we are arguing .i beg and he told me he dont want to give the love that he save save for me and dont come to him .Did i did anything wrong ?I love him so much..🥹♥️need your support to fix me..My friends also told me to stop this ..because of my self respect and family also dont supoort us.He helped me so much.and also me.please i need your advices.
Last updated on:2026-04-08T06:51:39+05:30
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I know it's so so hard, but you can't live in hoping the love he gave you in the past will come back. you're listening to yourself. you know you deserve better
Bro come on, in search of love you just loosing yourself he cares doesn't mean he still loves you there's more to the life I've been through this phase too and trust me you'll be healed and you'll be doing so much better in love and also there are alot of people in this world surely there will be someone for you too just have faith in God cuz when his replacement will arrive you'll never have to explain him why or have to beg him to love you it's tough for you right now but by the time you'll be healed trust me and also just cuz you want to move on from him do not go for another man cuz that's what most of the women do grieve alone for now talk to people online go out with your friends pray daily work on yourself and that's all
it hard that feeling. it my second day no contact with her .she is texting me in watsapp but i didn't open the app to read her messages !
it is hard, yesterday made a week and I had to pass her house but I decided to skip and not do the routine. you can do it and it’s important even if you did have a moment of talking in person. start over 1 day at a time. your future self will thank you and also when you release that more good things will come your way!! you will have space for when the right person comes into your life and build on that. you are not alone!!
your peace without him is more important
thanks!
don't worry really me too was in a relationship of four years and she is gone with someone else it's been a week now and it's the truth we have to face the reality
do you feel calm and safe when you’re with him, or are you mostly waiting for the next time he pulls away again?
yes
i feel so safe with him and he also loves me a lot nd i also love him but the llong distance between us breaking are relationship
for me the shift came when i stopped asking “did i do something wrong” and started seeing the pattern. i had to accept that love shouldn’t feel like begging or confusion every week
the silent treatment, then they come back with “i love you” just enough to pull you in again, i stayed in that cycle for years and it drained me