I was feeling pretty messy and dysfunctional but i think I have set the boundaries I need to. I know what I need to work on and I am taking the steps I need to make that healing happen. I know this is
I reached out to my ex today, but my impulse is to not count it as a relapse because I felt clear and grounded in alignment with my commitment to take space to care for myself. It was about stating th
I reached out. I knew i shouldn't. I wanted him to feel that I was hurting. I wanted him to feel remorseful. I know this isn't the way
how if power operating in your dynamic? what are the unmet needs and obligations that have arisen due to harm? what are thing that are frictions or tentions or disagreements that you are having? Ho
Thank you everyone who has commented. I is helpful to not be alone in this and to hear from others who are struggling and imperfect
My therapist says I was being cursive with my best friend when I tried to convince him to not invite my ex to his party. I think it's true. I also don't think he was showing up well either, but that's
My closest friend and sometimes fuck buddy decided to have my ex at his HRT anniversary party and that that was more important than having me there because of their creative collaboration. which... he
I get the impulse to check my phone every time I feel the hurt and the sadness. I want my friend to apologize to promise to do better. I want my ex to finally take accountability. I blocked them both
I am needing to not talk to 2 people. My ex and our mutual friend who is also a fuck buddy of mine. That friend has really shown up for me when my ex formed a clique with my best friend (at the time)