My therapist says I was being cursive with my best friend when I tried to convince him to not invite my ex to his party. I think it's true. I also don't think he was showing up well either, but that's not who I want to be. it's painful when I'm not showing up in the way I want to. I also really miss him. it's day 2
Last updated on:2026-04-14T15:33:56+05:30
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its ok to miss your ex we are humans
are you missing him as a friend more or is it tied to still missing your ex too?
I miss my ex too. but I also just miss my community and feel hurt about the ways I don't feel chosen by them
i know you’re hurting and trying to protect yourself.
it's true. I think that's what was modeled to me growing up, but I want to do better
yeah. I wish I could have just taken a step back and taken space rather than try to convince him. I know it doesn't even benefit me when I'm like that. it just hurts every one
begging my friend not to invite my ex somewhere and hating how i sounded after, like i wasn’t even myself. it sucks when grief pulls you out of your own character like that.