I feel that ach today. I know this space is what I need. I'm doing so much better without her, but what we had felt really special. I miss the easy and safety we had before everything went sideways
Last updated on:2026-06-03T00:38:58+05:30
Why am i missing her so much?
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hey missing the good parts didn't mean i was meant to go back. some people leave behind beautiful memories and a lot of pain at the same time.
it's true. I hope that some day we can have a healthy friendship, but right now I feel like we both make each other act a little crazy
you miss her most, do you find yourself missing who she is now, or the version of the relationship from before everything went sideways?
I think a little of both. I do just miss getting to spend time with her, but it is true that I do not really be around her has she is right now. We are both harboring too much resentment and when we were around each other I feel like we kept making little cutting comments. It's not just that I want things to go back to how they were... I do not want to live a lie, but I do want to get to a place where our every interaction is not overshadowed by the hurt we caused each other.
getting to a place where i knew i was healthier without my ex, but i'd still randomly miss those quiet moments where everything felt easy and safe. that ache stuck around longer than i expected
Good job staying strong 🫶
I do hope and believe that some day my ex and I can be friends... It is new for me to admit that. But in order for that to happen I need to be really grounded in myself and my boundaries