That feeling you get when you're trying to find yourself, at the same time you're doubting if you'll actually be happy again or find anything meaningful. Time feels slow, everyday feels like a drag, nothing motivates you.
You just try to get by, day by day.
it's not even relationship-wise but like a feeling where you miss those times you had no worries.
Last updated on:2026-04-02T17:39:03+05:30
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you feel like this started after something specific happened, or did it just creep in out of nowhere
i stopped waiting to feel motivated and just did one small thing anyway, even if it felt pointless.
I struggle to do this but I'll keep on trying
i feel this heavy, i went through a phase where every day felt the exact same and i was just existing not living. i used to miss the old version of me so much it actually hurt, like where did that person go
right?
I miss when my only problem was to go to kindergarten š
I get you. youāre not alone. Iām on day 3 no contact with my ex of three years. everyday is a blur. Iām so groggy and am constantly forgetting how to properly function at work. itās hard. I know in time, we will all feel so alive and ānormalā. this groggy stage will pass.
exactly...I hate the fact that when things like breakups happen, we find it harder to move on because we were the ones that loved more, so it affects our daily lives.
Iām only on day 3 of my break up and itās hour by hour with the emotions. wave after wave. I donāt know how to do life without him.
days will turn into weeks, weeks into months...just take each day as they come.
Let yourself grieve it if you have to
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Thank you so much š„¹ā¤ļø
when I find time, I'll check out the books you mentioned.
Hopefully I overcome this feelingš„²