we broke up friday jan 10 2025.. i love him like actually unconditionally fr.. i’ve never loved anyone the way i love him.. his wife left him earlier in 2024 n we met like a month after.. we didn’t make it official til 3 months ago maybe a lil longer.. he said he didn’t feel the same abt me that he needed to heal.. said he was sorry for being so broken that he really tried for me but didn’t wanna waste my time.. n like i get it i really do i respect that he needs time to heal but why did he make me so happy why did he make me feel so loved to the point i thought he’d finally come around.. then just like that it’s over.. my heart my soul my whole being is literally being ripped apart i feel like i’m drowning like waves keep crashing over me.. or like i’m floating in space just tiny n insignificant.. this hurts more than anything i’ve ever felt before like i am grief walking i feel like the grim reaper’s bride.. i can’t keep feeling like this.. i was engaged for 4+ years n that breakup didn’t even compare to this.. no one compares to him no one.. i can’t do this.. how do i cope how do i even start to move on.. he is my person n i want him to come back so bad
Last updated on:2025-01-30T12:18:32+05:30
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you’re not alone you were good before him and you’ll be good after him not tryna give false hope but life’s weird like that maybe when he heals he’ll come back who knows don’t wait on it but ig anything’s possible
dating n romance are lowkey a scam
Girl he was never really yours fr u caught feelings but he just used u as a rebound he prob cares abt u but he needs to heal I know u love him but him not wasting ur time is a blessing y’all got together way too soon after his breakup he didn’t even get time to process tbh that’s on him
Not gonna lie this stuff doesn’t really help I'm asking for actual coping tools
@NiceNinaa Go chill with your friends stop talking to each other don’t lurk on his socials and focus on self-care travel too if you can that helped me but it’s gonna take some time